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So, my flatmate just informed me of the fact that she will be moving out next month.
It's not as if this is totally inconvenient to me, since I've been debating for ages if I should and how I should tell her. I had not decided anything, and in any case, I intended to speak with her about it, because she's my friend. At least I kind of thought that she was one of my best friends. And I really thought we could work through the problems we were having (= the problems I have with her), but I guess not. I'm pretty sure we're not friends anymore, and that feels kind of weird.
Oh, for the record, the major problem I had with her was the fact that she made all the decisions on her own. I was definitely not amused when she informed me that she would paint the kitchen, for example, but my opinion apparently didn't count.
It's really weird losing a friend like this. Normally it's more of a process, or a really big argument, but this is neither.
It's not as if this is totally inconvenient to me, since I've been debating for ages if I should and how I should tell her. I had not decided anything, and in any case, I intended to speak with her about it, because she's my friend. At least I kind of thought that she was one of my best friends. And I really thought we could work through the problems we were having (= the problems I have with her), but I guess not. I'm pretty sure we're not friends anymore, and that feels kind of weird.
Oh, for the record, the major problem I had with her was the fact that she made all the decisions on her own. I was definitely not amused when she informed me that she would paint the kitchen, for example, but my opinion apparently didn't count.
It's really weird losing a friend like this. Normally it's more of a process, or a really big argument, but this is neither.
